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MY VIEW: Away with the evil spirit haunting young women

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By ELVIS ONDIEKI
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Good evening, Christine. About to retire to bed? I’m sorry to have interrupted your evening; but there is something I feel I should tell you before you sleep.

By the way, how is campus life? How is your first month in university panning out?

I hope my email hasn’t found you preparing supper inside the room of some male third year student who has made you believe that owning a sub-woofer and a laptop makes him part of the campus bourgeoisie, and who has promised you a lifetime supply of all the course handouts you need.

I hope I have not interrupted the planning of a weekend “plot” with your new friends in campus, a plot that involves visiting one of those town nightclubs where sound travels faster than light, if you know what I mean, and where the financier of the plot is a rich man that one of your new friends knows.

Such are the plots that end in drugging, date rapes, or worse.

Well, I hope your September has been at par with other first years. It has been a month of readjustments for various freshmen who joined universities across Kenya, and I’m happy you were one of them. Keep winning, Christine.

I type this with my fingers a little sweaty. It is as if Kenya is in a season of butchering young women.

I remember you pitying Sharon Otieno, the Rongo University student who received what should be called the unkindest mistreatment of all. I recall the consternation in your face as we discussed her case when her body had just been discovered.

And this past week, Form Four student Elvinah Moracha, aged 17, was murdered in Kisii County in what was believed to be the doing of a vengeful ex-boyfriend. Days earlier, 28-year-old Monica Nyawira had been found dead in a house in Kilimani. Bloodbath season, this.

Christine, I’m writing to you because I know how your dad and mum are struggling to get you a good education. They have sacrificed a lot and I would be gutted to see you being a player in any scandalous liaison that may bring to question their parenting skills.

You see, the stories grabbing headlines at the moment can make any man give up the hope of investing in their daughter’s education.

“What is it for?” a man may ask. “What if I’m struggling to pay fees for a girl who is hopping from one fuel guzzler to another, living life on the fast lane and not bothered about realising what took her to campus?” the father may wonder.

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Think about that, Christine. I can’t bring myself to visualising your father standing beside your coffin, biting his lower lip to give you the final respects which the majority of those attending the burial think you don’t deserve.

I shudder to imagine your mother trying to explain how you were a good, innocent girl who must have been misled by somebody. By then, the damage will have been done. Rumours will have spread. Your campus escapades, some of which will shock even the devil himself, will have become a hot gossip topic. Be careful, Christine.

You must have read about the advice that acting vice-chancellor of Egerton University Alexander Kahi gave to new students at the main campus. Women should keep off sugar daddies and men should shun sugar mummies, he said. I support him.

I will add that you should stick to your lane. That older man seeking your affection knows you are looking for him because you are desperate for cash and there is nothing as bad as being in a relationship where one party thinks the other is desperate.

I am about done with my message. You can now go back to your activities, which I hope should be about getting a good night’s sleep before tomorrow’s classes, not how you will dodge this man because the other one wants to see you tomorrow. Love triangles in campus can be pretty bloody, Christine.

Selena Gomez sings that the heart wants what it wants but I reckon you can never be too clever in matters of the heart. And I’m sure you would not like to live with the guilt of being the girl who sparked a fight between two young men that ended in death, or a lengthy prison term. Remember the death of Stephen Wairimu at Moi University in 2016?

I understand, you may be sneering at my email at the moment, if at all you managed to read this far.

You could be wondering why I am being too preachy and pre-emptive, as if I am the one who earned you admission to university, or as if you were not an adult who can make decisions. I will only use the hackneyed line: Choices have consequences.

[email protected] Elvis Ondieki is a ‘Nation’ reporter. Caroline Njung’e’s column resumes soon.



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Public officers above 58 years and with pre-existing conditions told to work from home: The Standard

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Head of Public Service Joseph Kinyua. [File, Standard]
In a document from Head of Public Service, Joseph Kinyua new measure have been outlined to curb the bulging spread of covid-19. Public officers with underlying health conditions and those who are over 58 years -a group that experts have classified as most vulnerable to the virus will be required to execute their duties from home.

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However, the new rule excluded personnel in the security sector and other critical and essential services.
“All State and public officers with pre-existing medical conditions and/or aged 58 years and above serving in CSG5 (job group ‘S’) and below or their equivalents should forthwith work from home,” read the document,” read the document.
To ensure that those working from home deliver, the Public Service directs that there be clear assignments and targets tasked for the period designated and a clear reporting line to monitor and review work done.
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Others measures outlined in the document include the provision of personal protective equipment to staff, provision of sanitizers and access to washing facilities fitted with soap and water, temperature checks for all staff and clients entering public offices regular fumigation of office premises and vehicles and minimizing of visitors except by prior appointments.
Officers who contract the virus and come back to work after quarantine or isolation period will be required to follow specific directives such as obtaining clearance from the isolation facility certified by the designated persons indicating that the public officer is free and safe from Covid-19. The officer will also be required to stay away from duty station for a period of seven days after the date of medical certification.
“The period a public officer spends in quarantine or isolation due to Covid-19, shall be treated as sick leave and shall be subject to the Provisions of the Human Resource Policy and procedures Manual for the Public Service(May,2016),” read the document.
The service has also made discrimination and stigmatization an offence and has guaranteed those affected with the virus to receive adequate access to mental health and psychosocial supported offered by the government.
The new directives targeting the Public Services come at a time when Kenyans have increasingly shown lack of strict observance of the issued guidelines even as the number of positive Covid-19 cases skyrocket to 13,771 and leaving 238 dead as of today.
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Principal Secretaries/ Accounting Officers will be personally responsible for effective enforcement and compliance of the current guidelines and any future directives issued to mitigate the spread of Covid-19.

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Uhuru convenes summit to review rising Covid-19 cases: The Standard

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President Uhuru Kenyatta (pictured) will on Friday, July 24, meet governors following the ballooning Covid-19 infections in recent days.
The session will among other things review the efficacy of the containment measures in place and review the impact of the phased easing of the restrictions, State House said in a statement.
This story is being updated.
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Drastic life changes affecting mental health

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Kenya has been ranked 6th among African countries with the highest cases of depression, this has triggered anxiety by the World Health Organization (WHO), with 1.9 million people suffering from a form of mental conditions such as depression, substance abuse.

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Globally, one in four people is affected by mental or neurological disorders at some point in their lives, this is according to the WHO.

Currently, around 450 million people suffer from such conditions, placing mental disorders among the leading causes of ill-health and disability worldwide.

The pandemic has also been known to cause significant distress, mostly affecting the state of one’s mental well-being.

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With the spread of the COVID-19 pandemic attributed to the novel Coronavirus disease, millions have been affected globally with over 14 million infections and half a million deaths as to date. This has brought about uncertainty coupled with difficult situations, including job loss and the risk of contracting the deadly virus.

In Kenya the first Coronavirus case was reported in Nairobi by the Ministry of Health on the 12th March 2020.  It was not until the government put in place precautionary measures including a curfew and lockdown (the latter having being lifted) due to an increase in the number of infections that people began feeling its effect both economically and socially.

A study by Dr. Habil Otanga,  a Lecturer at the University of Nairobi, Department of Psychology says  that such measures can in turn lead to surge in mental related illnesses including depression, feelings of confusion, anger and fear, and even substance abuse. It also brings with it a sense of boredom, loneliness, anger, isolation and frustration. In the post-quarantine/isolation period, loss of employment due to the depressed economy and the stigma around the disease are also likely to lead to mental health problems.

The Kenya National Bureau of Statistics (KNBS) states that at least 300,000 Kenyans have lost their jobs due to the Coronavirus pandemic between the period of January and March this year.

KNBC noted that the number of employed Kenyans plunged to 17.8 million as of March from 18.1 million people as compared to last year in December. The Report states that the unemployment rate in Kenya stands at 13.7 per cent as of March this year while it stood 12.4 per cent in December 2019.

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Mama T (not her real name) is among millions of Kenyans who have been affected by containment measures put in place to curb the spread of the virus, either by losing their source of income or having to work under tough guidelines put in place by the MOH.

As young mother and an event organizer, she has found it hard to explain to her children why they cannot go to school or socialize freely with their peers as before.

“Sometimes it gets difficult as they do not understand what is happening due to their age, this at times becomes hard on me as they often think I am punishing them,”

Her contract was put on hold as no event or public gatherings can take place due to the pandemic. This has brought other challenges along with it, as she has to find means of fending for her family expenditures that including rent and food.

“I often wake up in the middle of the night with worries about my next move as the pandemic does not exhibit any signs of easing up,” she says. She adds that she has been forced to sort for manual jobs to keep her family afloat.

Ms. Mary Wahome, a Counseling Psychologist and Programs Director at ‘The Reason to Hope,’ in Karen, Nairobi says that such kind of drastic life changes have an adverse effect on one’s mental status including their family members and if not addressed early can lead to depression among other issues.

“We have had cases of people indulging in substance abuse to deal with the uncertainty and stress brought about by the pandemic, this in turn leads to dependence and also domestic abuse,”

Sam Njoroge , a waiter at a local hotel in Kiambu, has found himself indulging in substance abuse due to challenges he is facing after the hotel he was working in was closed down as it has not yet met the standards required by the MOH to open.

“My day starts at 6am where I go to a local pub, here I can get a drink for as little as Sh30, It makes me suppress the frustration I feel.” he says.

Sam is among the many who have found themselves in the same predicament and resulted to substance abuse finding ways to beat strict measures put in place by the government on the sale of alcohol so as to cope.

Mary says, situations like Sam’s are dangerous and if not addressed early can lead to serious complications, including addiction and dependency, violent behavior and also early death due to health complications.

She has, however, lauded the government for encouraging mental wellness and also launching the Psychological First Aid (PFA) guide in the wake of the virus putting emphasis on the three action principal of look, listen and link. “When we follow this it will be easy to identify an individual in distress and also offer assistance”.

Mary has urged anyone feeling the weight of the virus taking a toll on them not to hesitate but look for someone to talk to.

“You should not only seek help from a specialist but also talk to a friend, let them know what you are undergoing and how you feel, this will help ease their emotional stress and also find ways of dealing with the situation they are facing,” She added

Mary continued to stress on the need to perform frequent body exercises as a form of stress relief, reading and also taking advantage of this unfortunate COVID-19 period to engage in hobbies and talent development.

“Let people take this as an opportunity to kip fit, get in touch with one’s inner self and  also engage in   reading that would  help expand their knowledge.

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